December 1, 2003
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I know it's been a long time and your probably very surprised that I am writing this. There has been a lot of drama in my life and thought better of posting and depressing everyone. But it is time that I try to get some of this off my shoulders and see if it can help heal a little.
My Mother-in-law has been getting ill since July. With the aid of an MRI they are now looking at pancreatic cancer. What course of action is taken will depend on whether it has spread to her liver or not. They will be doing another biopsy on Wednesday of the liver to determine that. She has another appointment with a surgeon this morning to review what her options will be once that has been decided. She will be 69 years old on 1/1/04, so needless to say this is hitting the family pretty hard. She has lost 45 pounds since July and looks very frail and thin.
We have still been going through the re-model and the contractor has finally finished up the major things this past week. Of course there are some minor gliches he needs to fix but we are now trying to get everything painted so we can get back to normal.
Geesh what flakes these contractors are!!! This was a very big learning experience for us in dealing them. Of course we had heard horror stories from friends but to experience it ourselves has been a very rude awakening. 
Hope this finds everyone having a very good Thanksgiving with your family and friends and I'll try not to be gone very long, hopefully this will be theraputic.

Comments (4)
I joust lost my mom do to cancer on nov 28 2003 yes it is vary hard on the all the family.
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Goodness!!! I am so sorry about the news....I hope that you all can just be there for her and spend lots of time with her no matter what the outcome.
I am so glad you are back!!! I have missed you terribly!!!!
Love ya lots!
Tina
Good to see you back although I am one to talk. Seems the drama just never stops, does it?? Hope this will help you to share your feelings, with positive feedback from some really great friends.....unlike some family interactions.....YNWIM?? I am also thinking that YOU being back with encourage me to take the time to get MY feelings out, as well. Love your "Winter" look, too!!
I'm sorry to hear about your MIL Susie!
I've missed you SOOOOOO much!! You must bring me totally up to date on your reno as well.
I'm here for ya If you need to talk to someone outside the family or whatever, anytime!!
LOVE ya (((((((((Susie)))))))) TC
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